Preparing for Divorce: A Checklist for Your First Meeting With a Lawyer

Even if your divorce is amicable, preparing for the process can be a highly emotional and confusing experience. Making an appointment for an initial consultation is a big step. Coming to the appointment prepared will help you decide more about what you can expect from the divorce process and what you can expect from a divorce attorney.

It’s not possible to ask every question during a consultation. As the process unfolds, more questions are sure to arise. However, the more information you have to begin with, the more confident you’ll be in your decisions, including your decision to hire the right family law attorney.

6 Common Questions to Ask a Divorce Attorney

The first meeting with your lawyer will mainly consist of general questions and answers. Don’t feel embarrassed to show up with a list of written questions or concerns. A written checklist is encouraged. If you feel nervous or emotional, having a checklist to refer to will help you stay focused.

1. How Much Experience Do You Have Handling Divorce?

Experience is important, especially in divorces where there is a lot of conflict or the property division is complex. Couples who disagree on child custody issues need attorneys who are accustomed to handling difficult cases.

2. What Can I Expect From the Divorce Process?

How much does a divorce cost, and what is the time frame? What are the steps you can expect as weeks go by? A good lawyer helps their client understand the process so they can manage their expectations and prepare for all contingencies.

3. How Does Your Billing System Work?

It’s reasonable to want to understand how, why, and when your attorney will bill you. Don’t feel shy about asking questions regarding billing. If an attorney isn’t forthcoming about their costs or hesitates to answer questions, this could be a sign that you should consult with a different lawyer.

4. Is There Anything I Should Keep Secret From My Spouse?

The answer to this important question may be different for each couple. Generally speaking, sharing information is a good way to keep things amicable and encourage cooperation with a soon-to-be ex. However, in some cases, it may be in your best interests to keep some information private.

5. How Will You Communicate With Me, and How Often?

Should you expect phone calls, emails, or texts from your attorney, and do you have a preference? Good attorneys are busy serving many clients at the same time, but that’s not an excuse for a lack of communication. The process may feel less stressful and chaotic if you aren’t always wondering when your attorney will contact you.

6. Will I Receive Spousal Support or Child Support?

Your attorney will likely examine your shared properties and incomes to provide an estimate of what you can expect for support. However, even during an initial consultation, an attorney should be able to tell you what kind of support you will most likely be eligible to receive.

Bring Your Checklist to Gucciardo Family Law

At Gucciardo Family Law, we know that divorce is a serious decision with many complications and ramifications. We’re here to help make the legal process go more smoothly and to provide the legal support you need to start a happy new life. Call Gucciardo Family Law and schedule a free consultation today.