Shared Custody: Tips for Navigating the Back-to-School Season with Your Child

Even the most amicable divorces are emotionally difficult. This is especially true for families with children.

After your divorce, navigating shared custody can be very challenging. If your child is returning to school after the renegotiation of your family structure, they may feel overwhelmed.

In the following post, we will discuss several useful tips for the back-to-school season. These effective strategies are designed for two-household families.

Parent Coordination for Supplies and Contacts

The two parents should coordinate their child’s emergency contacts. If possible, they should schedule a time to fill out the school’s contact and health information forms together.

This can help to ensure that both parents are on the same page. Each parent should understand and agree on what they want the school to do in case of an emergency.

Beyond coordinating school contacts, parents should organize the logistics surrounding school supplies. Spend some time thinking about what the child will need, including:

• School books
• Supplies–paper, pencils, pens, etc.
• Seasonally appropriate clothing
• Sports equipment
• Band instruments
• Art supplies

When it comes to some items, children may need one set for each of their homes.

Streamlining Communication 

Today’s instant communication tools–including cell phones and texting–have made it simpler for two-household families to stay in touch. But it is important to keep a reliable schedule for communication.

The child of a two-household family should have regular conversations with each parent. Additionally, the parents should speak with each other at least once a week.

This can help the family to remain coordinated regarding the child’s medications, doctor’s visits, schedule, school projects, and more.

Create a Reliable Schedule 

An established schedule is useful for many different reasons. Not only can parents keep track of their children’s activities, but it can also be helpful for the child.

There is evidence that a steady schedule helps children to learn to organize themselves and their behavior. With an established schedule, the child will know where they should be and at what time.

You don’t need to create a completely inflexible agenda. But structured time can help children know what to expect.

Act in the Best Interests of Your Child 

All divorces involve emotional challenges, which can quickly give rise to disputes. This is true even after a divorce has been finalized.

If something is bothering you or your co-parent, resolve it as civilly as possible. It is vital that you never use your children against your ex-spouse.

It is in your entire family’s best interests to resolve differences in a productive and respectful manner. If you cannot resolve the issue, you should reach out to a qualified third party. This may include a counselor, mediator, or a family law attorney. 

Contact Gucciardo Family Law 

If you are experiencing difficulty with shared custody, reach out to an accomplished family law attorney. The compassionate legal professionals at Gucciardo Family Law know the difficulties that many families face.

Do not wait. Let our experienced team help your family find the best path forward. Contact Gucciardo Family Law today to schedule a free initial consultation.